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PRAISE YE THE LORD!!

When the days are tough for me because of my skin condition and diet; when the days seems so unorganized; when there are tons of work awaiting me to catch up and finish…..Thanks to the LORD that HE didn’t let me collapse and give up but taught me that I have to learn how to praise HIM before any other things can go right.

Therefore, these days I am sorting out the praise verses in the KJV Bible, and reading through them daily to remind myself how to praise my Lord, and how mighty the Lord I’m trusting upon is. I am going to share these verses here, and hope that you can enjoy them also when you have a break any time of the day!

1Ch 29:13 Now therefore, our God, we thank thee, and praise thy glorious name.

Psa 7:17 I will praise the LORD according to his righteousness: and will sing praise to the name of the LORD most high.

Psa 8:1 O LORD our Lord, how excellent is thy name in all the earth! who hast set thy glory above the heavens.

Psa 9:1-2 I will praise thee, O LORD, with my whole heart; I will show forth all thy marvelous works. I will be glad and rejoice in thee: I will sing praise to thy name, O thou most High.

Psa 63:1-5 O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee: my soul thirsteth for thee, my flesh longeth for thee in a dry and thirsty land, where no water is; To see thy power and thy glory, so as I have seen thee in the sanctuary. Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee. Thus will I bless thee while I live: I will lift up my hands in thy name. My soul shall be satisfied as with marrow and fatness; and my mouth shall praise thee with joyful lips

Psa 71:8 Let my mouth be filled with thy praise and with thy honor all the day.

Psa 86:12-13 I will praise thee, O Lord my God, with all my heart: and I will glorify thy name forevermore. For great is thy mercy toward me: and thou hast delivered my soul from the lowest hell.

Psa 86:15 But thou, O Lord, art a God full of compassion, and gracious, longsuffering, and plenteous in mercy and truth.

Psa 100:4-5 Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name. For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.

Psa 104:33 I will sing unto the LORD as long as I live: I will sing praise to my God while I have my being.

Psa 112:1 Praise ye the LORD. Blessed is the man that feareth the LORD, that delighteth greatly in his commandments.

Psa 118:21 I will praise thee: for thou hast heard me, and art become my salvation.

Psa 119:7 I will praise thee with uprightness of heart, when I shall have learned thy righteous judgments.

Psa 119:175 Let my soul live, and it shall praise thee; and let thy judgments help me.

Psa 135:1 Praise ye the LORD. Praise ye the name of the LORD; praise him, O ye servants of the LORD.

Psa 135:3 Praise the LORD; for the LORD is good: sing praises unto his name; for it is pleasant.

Psa 138:1-5 I will praise thee with my whole heart: before the gods will I sing praise unto thee. I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name. In the day when I cried thou answeredst me, and strengthenedst me with strength in my soul. All the kings of the earth shall praise thee, O LORD, when they hear the words of thy mouth. Yea, they shall sing in the ways of the LORD: for great is the glory of the LORD.

Psa 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.

Psa 145:1-3 I will extol thee, my God, O king; and I will bless thy name forever and ever. Every day will I bless thee; and I will praise thy name forever and ever. Great is the LORD, and greatly to be praised; and his greatness is unsearchable.

Psa 145:8-13 The LORD is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy. The LORD is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works. All thy works shall praise thee, O LORD; and thy saints shall bless thee. They shall speak of the glory of thy kingdom, and talk of thy power; To make known to the sons of men his mighty acts, and the glorious majesty of his kingdom. Thy kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and thy dominion endureth throughout all generations.

Psa 146:1-2 Praise ye the LORD. Praise the LORD, O my soul. While I live will I praise the LORD: I will sing praises unto my God while I have any being.

Psa 147:1 Praise ye the LORD: for it is good to sing praises unto our God; for it is pleasant; and praise is comely.

Psa 147:3-7 He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. He telleth the number of the stars; he calleth them all by their names. Great is our Lord, and of great power: his understanding is infinite. The LORD lifteth up the meek: he casteth the wicked down to the ground. Sing unto the LORD with thanksgiving; sing praise upon the harp unto our God.

Psa 148:1-5 Praise ye the LORD. Praise ye the LORD from the heavens: praise him in the heights. Praise ye him, all his angels: praise ye him, all his hosts. Praise ye him, sun and moon: praise him, all ye stars of light. Praise him, ye heavens of heavens, and ye waters that be above the heavens. Let them praise the name of the LORD: for he commanded, and they were created.

Psa 148:13 Let them praise the name of the LORD: for his name alone is excellent; his glory is above the earth and heaven.

Psa 150 Praise ye the LORD. Praise God in his sanctuary: praise him in the firmament of his power. Praise him for his mighty acts: praise him according to his excellent greatness. Praise him with the sound of the trumpet: praise him with the psaltery and harp. Praise him with the timbrel and dance: praise him with stringed instruments and organs. Praise him upon the loud cymbals: praise him upon the high sounding cymbals. Let every thing that hath breath praise the LORD. Praise ye the LORD.

Isa 12 And in that day thou shalt say, O LORD, I will praise thee: though thou wast angry with me, thine anger is turned away, and thou comfortedst me. Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and not be afraid: for the LORD JEHOVAH is my strength and my song; he also is become my salvation. Therefore with joy shall ye draw water out of the wells of salvation. And in that day shall ye say, Praise the LORD, call upon his name, declare his doings among the people, make mention that his name is exalted. Sing unto the LORD; for he hath done excellent things: this is known in all the earth. Cry out and shout, thou inhabitant of Zion: for great is the Holy One of Israel in the midst of thee.

Jer 20:13 Sing unto the LORD, praise ye the LORD: for he hath delivered the soul of the poor from the hand of evildoers.

Heb 13:15 By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.

A Battle

It seems like I was dormant the last two months, didn’t have a single post here. And I wasn’t even functioning at home too! I have been fighting a battle!

What happened was, I figured that my skin problem that started in January this year is related to Candida yeast overgrowth. Therefore, I put myself on Candida diet (a cruel one) since the end of August. I was getting better. And I thought I was better that I could tolerate a bit of ‘forbidden food’ in the beginning of October, so I ate a bagel and a tea biscuit from Tim Horton while we were on the road, and I even ate a piece of apple pie. And there you go, me and my family have to suffer for almost two months since then!

My skin got so worse and itchy and it flared up on my face which is not even cleared yet as of today. What’s worse was I got so frustrated, discouraged and depressed, partly because of the toxins released by the Candida yeast. I didn’t feel like doing anything, I was not myself at all. I have to push myself so hard to get up from a chair or move away from the window to do what I was supposed to do, like preparing lunch for my 5 little girls. And I lost my patience. Of course, I felt guilty, useless and helpless. I could only cry out to the Lord, “Please heal me!” The Lord didn’t take away my illness in an instant although He could if He’s willing. He is working on my self-discipline. During this harsh time, my weaknesses were just being magnified. When I had eaten enough nuts that day, I told myself it’s enough and I should wait for tomorrow for more, but a second later you would find me eating a few more again. And when I kept asking the Lord why it had to be so hard? The Lord said to me, “Why don’t you rejoice in me always, even now?”

With God’s mercy, my physical started to feel better last week. I seized the chance to not being sluggish any more and started to do exercise with my children, even singing with them. Then I kept getting better. More energy is back. Feeling more positive although I still have to fight the itchiness from time to time. I should be able to talk more about this Candida Yeast Infestation soon.

Thank you for all your prayers. Prayer is the most needed thing in a time like this. And I have to tell you how gracious I am to have Derek as my husband. His gentleness, understanding and support surely played a big part in getting me through this.

On top of all these, my 6th pregnancy was just being confirmed. All of us rejoice and are looking forward to this baby. And one good thing of this timing is, my first trimester was combined with my Candida problem so I don’t need another 3 months to feel sick again. However, the down side is that the strict diet and the toxins in my body now may affect the fetus’s health. Please pray for us that the baby would be healthy.

Pray!

To be a joyful keeper at home, one needs to pray to start her day!

Here are two poems that I would like to share:

 

I got up early one morning
And rushed right into the day;
I had so much to accomplish
That I didn’t have time to pray.

Problems just tumbled about me
And heavier came each task;
“Why doesn’t God help me?” I wondered.
He said, “But you didn’t ask.”

I wanted to see the beauty,
But the day toiled on, gray and bleak;
I wondered why God didn’t show me.
He said, “But you didn’t seek.”

I tried to come into God’s presence;
I used all my keys at the lock.
God gently and lovingly chided,
“My child, you didn’t knock.”

I woke up early this morning
And paused before entering the day.
I had so much to accomplish
That I had to take time to pray!

——Author unknown

 

A Wasted Hour
I wasted an hour one morning
Beside a mountain stream,
I seized a cloud from the sky above
And fashioned myself a dream.

In the hush of the early twilight
Far from the haunts of men,
I wasted a summer evening
And fashioned my dream again.

Wasted? Perhaps. Folks say so
Who never have walked with God
When lanes are dotted with flowers
Or yellow with goldenrod.

But I have found strength for my labors
In that one short evening hour;
I have found joy and contentment…
I have found peace and power.

My dreaming has left me a treasure,
A hope that is strong and true.
From wasted hours I have builded
My life and my faith anew.

——Miranda Walton

Green Onion Salad Dressing

Green Onion DressingWe buy no more salad dressing from stores! Think about all those genetic modified canola oil, modified corn starch, refined sugar, preservatives, colours, chemical table salt….etc, NO THANKS! Besides, once you got used to the idea of mixing your own salad dressings, it actually doesn’t take you long to mix one! Usually only a few minutes or so. And the benefits well worth the time! Try this delicious one with your salad or noodles =)

Ingredients :

  • a bunch of green onions
  • 1 cup olive oil
  • 1/3 cup organic raw apple cider vinegar
  • 1/4 cup raw honey
  • 1 1/2 tsp sea salt

Place all the ingredients in a blender and mix it well until creamy.
Enjoy!

Jumping Ship

We do everything we can to avoid our children from jumping ship to the world when they get older. We homeschool them, throw the TV out of the house, stay away from rock and roll popular music, bring them to conservative churches, read them the Bible, have family worship everyday, let them play with well-mannered children, provide them with old fashioned character building/christian value oriented story books…..the list goes on and on. The question is, do all these GUARANTEE our children will not depart from the truth when they grow up?

Have you ever wondered what will possibly make our children drifted away? Is it destiny? Or is it in God’s hands? If it’s in God’s hands, are we responsible for anything? Or are we too limited? However, didn’t God entrust us with these little souls? Didn’t God say in Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”?

The following articles from No Greater Joy ministry are a MUST read. They remind us about what we could have missed when we raise our children. I included these articles under our Resources:Child Training Articles section.

Jumping Ship
Jumping Ship (Part Two)
Jumping Ship (Part Three)
Jumping Ship (Part Four)
Jumped Ship (Part Five)

Another chicken is going to die

Sadly, I notice another chicken is not eating or drinking and doesn’t want to move at all. I held it up and sure enough, it is very light. Its comb has shrinked and it looks like it wants to sleep all the time. Since I don’t want to inject medication, I am just going to wait for its death. Well, at least the kids know life and death is part of nature, because of sin. When Jesus comes back again, after the thousand years’ reign, there will be no more death, as it is written in Rev 21:4. What a marvelous thing! Lord, I wish you come back soon.

Against Feminism

In order to enjoy being a keeper a home, you need to be against feminism.

To be honest, “against feminism” never came to my mind before, as feminism is always being portrayed as something good. I still have memory of me in highschool thanking God that He allowed me to be born after feminism exists, as it seems to be a lot easier for women to survive in today’s society than in older days. “At least a woman is to be respected, to be treated as an individual, a human!”, I thought. I couldn’t imagine a life that a woman is not able to dream like a man does, and does not have a say of what she wants to be! Having the right to make choices like man seemed to be the most important thing in the world! I still remember I wish I were a male more than once as female seems to have a lot of physical limitations. And strangely enough, myself and a lot of my peers even rejected to dress like a woman. We tended to dress “cool”, or even dress like a man. Blue and black were our colors, never pink or red or purple. When we met a pink ‘girly’ girl, we couldn’t even think of anything to talk to her.

Only until I got married and had two kids 6 years ago, I started to reconsider and rethink what a woman is. At that time, I was “stucked” at home with a 13 months old baby and a new born. Although I did want to go out and find an high-tech job as I have a computer science degree, it was just hard to leave the two babies behind. It made sense that I should find a job as that’s what my degree was for, for the sake of all the time and money being invested. On the other hand, it didn’t make sense to leave these two helpless babies behind. With God’s mercy, Derek and I came into a conclusion that I should stay home at that moment, and see how it went for a few years.

As time goes on, God led us to scriptures like Eph 5:22 and Titus 2:3-5, ministries like No Greater Joy, and books like Created to be His help meet, that I figured I am supposed to stay home and submit to my husband. I am supposed to keep the house, to nurture the children, not to send them away. It’s not easy to accept this idea. What about my degree? What about my dreams? But it all makes sense. My husband and I are not equal, but have different roles to make the family functions. It’s not about who’s superior, but it’s about the Lord, about the order, and about love.

Do we love the Lord? Think about all that He has done for us. Think about the blood on the cross. Would that be Jesus’s dream to be put on the cross? NO. It’s about the Lord’s will, it’s about love, not personal dreams. Do we love the Lord enough to obey His words? To submit to our husband, the man that we say we love and honour? Do we love our children enough to stay home with them and train them up to walk in truth?

Yes, it is my calling and my job to be a keeper at home. It’s my life long career. And I am learning everyday to become a better keeper as it is not my specialty! And I know it will please my Lord and my lovely husband =)

Eph 5:22 (KJV)
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

Titus 2 : 3-5 (KJV)
3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

To read more about against feminism :
http://www.ladiesagainstfeminism.com/
http://proverbs14verse1.blogspot.com/
http://www.noblewomanhood.com/

Keeper at Home

Although Home Recipes, Home Remedies and Homeschooling sections of the blog are already parts of keeper at home sharings, I still find it not enough. Therefore, I start a new category here called “Keeper at Home” to cover all the other sharings in my journey to strive for becoming a keeper at home that pleases and honour the Lord and my dear husband.

First of all, let us meditate the 2 wonderful and powerful Scriptures from the Bible that have inspired thousands and thousands of godly women!

Titus 2 : 3-5 (KJV)
3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Proverbs 31:10-31 (KJV)
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Our Children’s Hearts

HorseWhen you look at this picture, what do you see? Freedom? Getaway? Great Escape? Or feeling relax with a gentle breeze running through your hair? My little girl Viviana (will be 3 in two weeks) sadly said to me last night, “This horse is looking for her mommy and daddy! She’s afraid, she’s all by herself. She’s looking for her mommy and daddy!” We were not talking about any stories at that time. Viviana was just looking at the books by herself, and then she came to me with this picture and the comments.

I was surprised at first by her comments, then I realized me, my hubby and this family, means the whole world to her at this stage of her life. There are people who claim that separation anxiety is caused by the child doesn’t have enough sense of security or the child doesn’t get chances to see enough people in their daily life. It sounds like separation anxiety indicates something is wrong. I always wonder why it would be wrong for a 2 years old child not feeling comfortable when mommy and daddy is not around. Have you ever seen a baby beluga baby beluga and its motherswimming around its mother all the time? Have you ever seen a colt resting happily under its mother or running with her? Have you ever seen a baby sloth just hanging on its mother so tightly no matter where its mother goes? Have you ever seen ducklings following their mother all the time? These are all beautiful pictures of the nature, of this God created world. If there’s anything wrong with separation anxiety, it would be the absence of the parents. And the child is simply expressing his/her needs of “looking for mommy and daddy”, since the child “is afraid, she is all by herself”. Viviana said it all.

When our first born child Tiffany was 2 years old, we tried to enroll her to children Sunday school. She cried when I left the room. That’s normal I believe. Then the teachers and other mothers told me, “it’s OK, she’s OK, just let her cry, it will only be a few minutes. And after a few more times, she will get used to it and enjoy the class.” These comments sound common. I doubted if this is the way to work but I did follow the advice. For a few weeks, the situation did not get better, and Tiffany cried through the whole section until she’s too exhausted and fell asleep. I was frustrated. And the teacher explained to me since my child did not attend day care, thus she’s lack of exposure. And since Odelia was only 1 year old at that time, I must be too busy to give Tiffany enough attention and thus this separation anxiety. I felt bad, as it did sound like I didn’t raise up my child properly like I didn’t put her in a daycare. Therefore, I was determined to find out whether it was a “must” thing for Tiffany to enjoy that Sunday school at that age. Did she really miss something not going to a daycare?

God led me to a few ministries, people and books. I came to realize there’s nothing wrong for a child to cling to his/her parents. It’s a beautiful picture. The child offers his whole heart to his parents to keep from day 1. You should see the response Shoshana (1) has when she sees me walk into her sight. She rejoices with her whole body and face. Parents are where the child’s heart is, therefore, the child has to cling to his parents. Biblically, parents and children have to stay together all the time, In Deuteronomy 6, we are instructed to “And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.” So you see, to us, homeschooling is not an option. Some people put their children to babysitters when the baby is not even one yet. I understand that sometimes life is cruel and there’s no choice. But if there’s a choice, please don’t be deceived and believe that the babysitter will raise up your child better than you do. It might seem like the baby eats more when the babysitter feeds her, or the babysitter knows more about toilet training. But she’s not the mother.

Mothers, please put our children’s delicate hearts in a safe precious place, they love to see us with their hearts, they just love us, even when we don’t deserve their love sometimes. Don’t break their hearts. Let the whole beautiful hearts be ready for our children to take them back when their wings are ready to fly, when they know where the Lord wants their hearts to be.

Show Time!

Thanks to Sutton Fair! We had a lot of crafts done the past few weeks as the children were so motivated to show their creations at the Sutton Fair the coming weekend. Since we homeschool, we do need to find audience for our children, as they don’t have much chance to show their creativity in a public place, to receive comments from someone who doesn’t belong to the family, and to experience win & lost.

Here, let me present their entries this year :

TiffanyFairTiffany (7) created a cow from recycled products, a LEGO cow, a truck made of pasta, a drawing of dolphins, a heart shape pillow, an embroidery picture saying “Derek’s Hammer”, a photo of chickens and a photo of baby pepper plant, a decorated box. She’s also showing the peas and zucchini that she planted and a piece of creative writing.

OdeliaFairOdelia (6) created a LEGO house, a marshmallow robot, a butterfly pillow, decorated a box with dried flowers, a photo of our pool, and a picture that she made with beans and grains called “My Country Home”.

SoniaFairSonia (4) also made a LEGO house, and a drawing of a farm, a marshmallow cow, and will show the potatoes that she planted.

 

 

 

 

VivianaFairViviana (3 at the end of the month) made a LEGO barn, and a marshmallow barn.